1) Again and again!
"I've done it before and would probably do it again with the same person, if he's up for it, of course. Whether or not I would have sex with someone would rely on a bunch of factors like if I'm sexually attracted to them or if I'm sure we're compatible in bed (kasi mas awkward if friend mo na nga tapos bad sex pa). If I know him really well, what's the harm [in doing it] if we're both single and horny? Basta no after-cuddle.
P.S. I don't consider what we had, a friends-with-benefits arrangement. I think that's a regular thing. Sa' kin naman if we're both bored lang—and that's once in a blue moon. — Erika, 22
2. Kung kaya ng puso mo
"Feel ko kung kaya niyo, sex is just sex. Minsan nga productive pa kasi pwede may feedback parang hindi ka mahihiyang sabihin, 'you can work on your tongue pa, ha ha!'" — Jay, 28
3. We had our boundaries
I had a platonic relationship with someone pareho kaming heartbroken and needing noon. Almost best friend levels na pero simula pa lang ng relationship nagsabi na kami sa isa't isa na di ako magkakagusto sa kanya and siya ganoon din sa akin. We both know each other and we know we really wouldn't work out. Almost a year kami nun pero never ko naisip na magse-sex kami. — Johann, 20
4. My best friend was my best
The best sexual experience I've ever had was with my best friend. He was just fresh from a break up and we decided to drink. I never really saw him in a sexual way before that night. Parang it had to do with how vulnerable he was tapos ang daming feelings, ganun? Ha ha! Anyway, when he was driving me back to my house, I gave him a goodnight hug before leaving tapos medyo... napatagal. I felt his breath on my neck tapos na-turn on ako then hinalikan ko siya sa leeg. After than one thing lead to another and we had sex... in his car... in front of my parent's house. — Chill, 19
5. Dick pics ruin everything
I had sex with one of my close friends before and I think that experience taught me that you can't be friends and have sex at the same time. All the awkwardness after it happened wasn't worth the minutes, erm, seconds, of 'pleasure.' It really got weird when he would suddenly text me that he was masturbating to my photos or send me photos of his dick. Sex ruined our friendship. — Janna, 22