1. Remember to heat up that engine
"Ang babae parang kotse, kailangan munang painitin yung makina bago umandar. You can't just go for it and expect a smooth ride. Go for her erogenous zones. Palibhasa kasi, sa lalaki basta hawakan mo yung ano, okay na. Be more creative with your approach and you'll go a long way." - Kate, 32
2. Patience is key
"A lot of guys are way too impatient to wait for a girl to finish. I'm not sure whether it's because of watching too much porn or something but most men I've been with are just too fast and just want to get it done. I find that weird kasi ang tagal mong pinaghirapan to get into our pants tapos gusto mo mabilisan lang parang ang labo. Cherish the moment and build anticipation. Learn the art of making pabitin." - Glenda, 25
3. Educate yourself
"I think the reason why I never had an orgasm when I was younger was because I never really thought of myself while having sex. It was all about the guy I was with. As long as he was happy, then I was happy too. That all changed when I met new, more open-minded friends who taught me more about sex and self-love in general. When I started thinking about how to make myself happy and started experimenting with these things, that's when my sex life really improved." - Jasper, 29
4. Not compatible
"I was in a long term relationship a couple of years ago. It was a generally happy relationship, except that I've never had an orgasm while I was with him. I can cum when I'm alone but it always felt awkward when I was with him. We talked a lot about it and he even said that the other girls he's been with said he was great in bed. This actually made me question if something was wrong with me. Thankfully, we broke up because of other reasons so I didn't have to think about it a lot. I'm not sure if I would have broken up with him because the sex was bad. I did love him." - Janet, 25
5. Maliit kasi eh
"Seryoso, malaking bagay yung size... no pun intended. I'm not sure why other women say na it's about the performance kasi I've never had an orgasm with a guy that was small. Though, baka ako lang naman yun. It's something din about how the size of a guys member turns me on when I see it so baka ganun talaga ako? If you're a guy na small and can make girls happy in bed then I totally respect that but from my experience, ganun talaga eh." - Anita, 20